Actual Reasons Why Men Leave Pregnant Women

If you have wondered, hopefully not from personal experience, why men leave pregnant women there are many reasons. If the woman is his wife than it will probably be completely unexpected; after all he committed to the marriage why bail now?

Other than the unexpectedness of a married man leaving his pregnant wife, it's usually pretty easy to spot the type of 'man' who would leave his pregnant girlfriend.  I think all women need to use common sense before they get intimately involved with any man.

First of all if you are entering into an intimate relationship  with a man before you have really gotten to know him you have to be aware that there are many  potential dangers besides unexpected pregnancy.  If you've been in the relationship for at least a little time there have probably been many signs that this guy is a loser.

Women are too quick to 'forgive' bad behavior in the men they date.  They will say things like "he's got a good heart', "that's just the way he was raised", "it's a guy thing", etc. to justify the selfish and inconsiderate things their boyfriends do. If you're this type of woman you really should get counseling so you can understand why you would settle for this type of relationship.

The reality is that some men just don't like women and they get off on treating them badly.  For some guys it can be a real ego boost to treat his girlfriend like trash and have her keep coming back for more.  If you're in a relationship with that type of guy it's not too much of a stretch to think he might leave you if you got pregnant.

Any man who is verbally, emotionally, and especially physically abusive will more than likely leave you whenever the relationship isn't convenient for him.  If your man exhibits any of these traits you should make darn sure that you don't accidentally get pregnant.  Even if he doesn't leave, he is already abusive and once you are 'tied down' with a child that abuse is almost guaranteed to increase.

So if you are with a man who doesn't treat you with love, affection, and respect, you shouldn't be surprised to find yourself all on your own if you become pregnant.  I'm not sure why men leave pregnant women expect that the term 'man' is probably not a very accurate description of these types of guys.

Why Men Leave Their Wives

Many women have had to face the heartbreak of a relationship break up.  It's never easy, and most would do just about anything to avoid a break up.  Men who leave their wives have many reasons for doing so, but there are some things to keep in mind so you can hopefully avoid finding yourself in that painful situation.

One thing all women need to keep in mind, that might seem to go against everything they've ever heard or believed, is that men and women aren't all that different in what they want from a relationship, they just have different ways of getting it.

Men want their women to love, respect, and admire them.  Most men want to feel like they are meeting all of the needs of their wives and girlfriends and they want their women to show a high level of appreciation.  They want to be admired.

It's important for everyone to feel accepted for who they really are and feel like they are appreciated for all they do. Men, and women, will leave a relationship if these basic needs aren't met.

One common misconception is that men leave their wives because they have found another women who they are attracted to. While this may be true to a point, they were most likely already feeling like their needs weren't being met long before the 'other woman' came into the picture.

One of the difficult things for women to deal with is that most men either don't understand why they're feeling the way they are or they are unable, or unwilling, to try to discuss it and come up with a solution.  They just know they are unhappy and are sick of feeling that way.

If you want to try to keep your relationship with your husband happy and healthy, it's important that you understand that even though he may express his needs in a different way than you he still has the same basic need to be loved and admired that you do. He wants to feel like he is your prince charming and is the most important person in the world to you.  Meeting these needs will help ensure that your husband isn't one of the men who leave their wives.

Dealing With Cheaters - How Can I Save Our Relationship

If you've ever been in a relationship where you or your partner cheated, you may wonder how you can ever move on.  The question is for cheaters how can I save our relationship? There are many things you can do to move your relationship forward after one person has been unfaithful, but you have to keep in mind that sometimes a relationship simply cannot be saved.

If both parties want to try to save the relationship and move on after an affair it will take a lot of time and maturity.  It's really tough to trust again after someone has taken your trust and thrown it away.  Some people will not be able to get over it and it will not only end their existing relationship but that lack of trust can follow them to relationship after relationship for the rest of their lives.

Because the hurt you can cause another person could literally scar them for life it's really important that you really think it through before you decide to cheat.  After all, is a little fun on the side, or a quick ego boost really worth the pain you'll be causing another human being?  If you are so insecure that you think it's worth it just so you can feel better about yourself and more desirable you should probably not be in any relationship and spend some time in a therapists office.

One of the biggest things you will need to do to move your relationship forward after an affair is to have both parties be brutally honest about the initial breakdown of the relationship and their part in it.  Blame for ruining a relationship is always shared by both parties, not always equally, but there are reasons the relationship fell apart to the point that someone thought they needed to have their needs satisfied by someone else.

Once you can honestly admit what went wrong you can solve the problem if you and your partner can communicate effectively.  This means you have to avoid name calling, finger pointing, and accusations. If you can communicate in an adult fashion about the problems in your relationship and what you can do to fix them you might be able to salvage your relationship.

The bottom line is that not all relationships should be saved.  If you are involved with someone who has a long history of cheating you should just move on.  They are obviously too concerned with their own selfish wants and needs, and they will never change. If, on the other hand, someone just gave into a moment of weakness you might be able to work together to save your relationship.  So ask yourself: cheaters, how can I save our relationship?